Tell us: share your experience of ethical non monogamy

Open relationships, polyamory, throuples and all manner of other combos: (ethically) having more than one romantic partner on the go has become less taboo. So much so that last year, Tinder launched a “relationship type” feature so users could express their interest in what is commonly referred to as ethical non monogamy, or ENM.

From when and how you first experimented with it, to how it is or isn’t working out, we want to hear your experiences with ENM: the good, the bad and the funny. Share your experience You can share your stories and tips about ethical non monogamy at its best and worst via this form. Please do not write about someone else without their permission.

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For true anonymity please use our SecureDrop service instead. Name Where do you live? Tell us a bit about yourself Optional When did you first learn about Ethical non monogamy (ENM)?, how did you start practicing it and for how long has it been part of your life? What does your ENM look like today? How has it evolved over time? Share some positive or negative experiences you've had since making it part of your romantic life Do you have any advice for those who are considering trying ENM? Can we publish your response? Yes, entirely Yes, but contact me first Yes, but please keep me anonymous No, this is information only You can add more information here Optional Phone number Optional Your contact details are helpful so we can contact you for more information.

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